Research shows happy couples think in ways unhappy couples don’t. What if you could ensure your thoughts were setting you up to love well?

You can.

In Us In Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage, you will discover through Scripture, research, and neuroscience an ironically simple way of rethinking how you see your marriage. You will focus on just five intentional thoughts which are designed to help you love well, even when it’s not easy:

  • What do you think about yourself?
  • What do you think about your spouse?
  • What do you think about your spouse’s emotions?
  • What do you think about your response?
  • What do you think is the purpose of your marriage?

Be assured, this book is not a stuffy textbook; it’s full of humor, real-life examples, and practical application. Whether you love marriage books or hate them, this book holds a fresh perspective on marriage for everybody, offering even the biggest skeptic a relevant takeaway.

You can change your marriage by changing your thoughts. It’s simpler than you think. 


“Ted Lowe absolutely nails it in Us In Mind when he writes that your thoughts are what matters most when it comes to marriage. Learning to change your mind by taking control of your thoughts can be the difference between a miserable marriage and a loving and fulfilling partnership for life.”

Daniel G. Amen, MD, author of You, Happier and The End of Mental Illness

“This book is going to be a game changer for marriages. Plus, one of the things I always love about Ted’s work is his ability to make people think while never forgetting to make them laugh. Us In Mind is no exception.”

—Julie Baumgardner, Senior Director of WinShape Marriage

“Ted Lowe uses humor, personal stories, and Scripture that all work to equip you to change your marriage by changing your mind. We consider this book to be an invaluable resource for those (like us) who are committed to making their marriage a masterpiece. Together we are reading, studying, laughing, applying what Ted said, and sharing what we have learned from this book with others.”

—Montell and Kristin Jordan, recording artists and Lead Pastors of Master Peace Church/Marriage Masterpeace Retreat Center, Grammy-nominated singer-songwriter, #1 recording artist

“Ted’s passion for marriages is evident in the quality of information he shares and his unique way of sharing ideas that married couples can easily implement. This book is an amazing resource for me and our marriage team.”

—Linda Vujnov, Marriage Pastor, Mariners Church, Irvine, California


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Lauren Terrell


Ted Lowe is a speaker, writer, and the founder of MarriedPeople.org. For 10 years Ted served as the director of Married Life at North Point Community Church in Alpharetta, Georgia, and is the author of Your Best Us: Marriage Is Easier Than You Think and Married People: How Your Church Can Build Marriages That Last. Ted lives in Cumming, Georgia, with his five favorite people: his wife, Nancie, and their four children. For more info about Ted, visit tedlowe.com. 

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